Showing posts with label Little League. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Little League. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 14, 2022

My Dad Called Me Stupid In Front of My Friends and I Wasn't Scarred for Life

The event took place in the evening of a lovely summer day. Mr. McAvoy was driving a carload of boys home from a Little League game in his gold convertible with the top down. This was the 60's and no one had seatbelts. Some of us were seated across the top of the back seat with our team T-shirts and hats. I was one of these, on the driver's side, the lazy breeze whooshing across our faces. 

I can still picture my dad in the middle of the Christianson's front lawn, arms folded, feet planted shoulder width as he chatted with the neighbors. Off to the right of the driveway Robin Christianson, a girl I liked, looking our way with a couple of friends. 

As the car slowed to make a right hand turn onto Cambridge Lane, I noticed the speedometer slow to about ten miles per hour. Somehow I got it into my head that if I leapt from the car and started moving my legs I could actually hit the ground running and run right up to Robin and her friends. 

Wrong.

I will mention here that though the road was paved with asphalt there was also a lot of large limestone gravel scattered in the gutter area of the road bed. As my body slammed into the pavement, the limestone tore my finger and gouged my forearm. Stunned, it seemed that everything was silent for a second. Time had stopped, as did Mr. McAvoy's car. 

It was then that I heard my dad's voice thunder through the air as he came running across the yard: "You stupid!"

I didn't feel any pain in my body at that moment as he lifted me up and began walking me across the street to our house. We went into the family room bathroom and he cleaned my wounds, but the humiliation was harder to clean. 

He was right, of course. Eventually, years later, I recognized that I needed to forgive him for making me feel small in front of my friends. And I did. 

For the record, if you ever feel tempted to leap from a moving car, don't. Generally it only works in the movies. I got lucky. Some people get killed.

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I have written about this story before in a blog post about the Darwin Awards. If interested, you can read that here.

In passing I mention the story here as well: Seven Quotes About Stupidity

ALTERNATE TITLE: My Dad Called Me Stupid in Front of My Friends and I Lived to Tell About It.

Tuesday, September 28, 2021

This Day In History: Ted Williams Tales

THIS DAY IN HISTORY
Ted Williams hits his final homer #521 (off Jack Fisher)

Early Ted Williams baseball card
(oldest in my possession)
No question about it, Ted Williams was one of the great hitters of all time in Major League Baseball. On this day in 1941 the Boston Red Sox star ended the season with a .406 batting average, the last player to bat over .400 for a complete season. His On Base Percentage (a measure of a player's ability to get on base) was the highest of all time in pro baseball.

To illustrate OBP, consider my first year of baseball after Little League. Little League was for kids 8-12. Babe Ruth League is what you played when you were 13-18. Even though I was a Little League All Star, when I turned 13 and played in Babe Ruth League I was a runt. I never got a hit the whole season. Yet, even though I struck out 13 times, I also walked 13 times, so my On Base Percentage was .500.  That is, half the time I went to the plate I got on base.

Ted Williams got on base by base hits, but also by discipline. He made pitchers throw the ball over the plate. He did not swing wildly at pitches outside the strike zone. He wasn't ashamed to take a walk. He knew that every runner who gets on base, by any means, is a potential run.

For more read:
I consider it an honor that this blog post was re-posted on the John Updike Society website.
 
Other Events of Significance on This Day
In 1066 William the Conqueror invaded England
The Jesse James Gang's surprise attack of a train in 1864 results in 150 killed. 
In 1908 Henry Ford's first Model T rolls out of the Piquette Plant in Detroit.
In 1954, the Tonight Show premiered with host Steve Allen.
In 1963, Lee Harvey Oswald visited the Cuban Consulate in Mexico City.
In 2021, Ed Newman published his 5,195th post on his Ennyman's Territory blog.

Have a great, and grateful, day.

OH NO! EVERYTHING HERE IS WRONG. THIS ALL HAPPENED ON SEPT. 27.
NOT INTENDED TO BE FAKE NEWS... LET'S CALL IT MISTAKE NEWS.

My apologies to those who count on me for accurate reporting. This is a reminder to verify before you share. 

Monday, May 3, 2021

Two Films With Heart: One About Little League Baseball and the Other About Fencing

THE PERFECT GAME

OK, I'm not a huge fan of films featuring child actors (The Little Rascals being an exception) so I wasn't sure what to expect when I took out The Perfect Game from the library two weeks ago. But I loved baseball when I was a kid and right from the start I was so glad I went for it. It stirred up many memories, both from my Little League experiences and our year at an orphanage in Monterrey. In fact, I even got a little weepy toward the end. Yeah, the film won my heart.

The movie is based on a true story about a Little League team from Monterrey, Mexico that became the first non-U.S. team to win the Little League World Series.  There are some aspects of the story which are a stretch the way it is portrayed here, but if you go with it it's an enjoyable film. You can roll your eyes later. 

The film opens with a brief scene in which Cesar Faz (Clifton Collins, Jr.) is let go by the St. Louis Cardinals. Even though he never played with the Cardinals -- he washed their clothes and cleaned the locker room -- there was a mystique after he returned to Mexico about his having "been in the Majors." 

A few neighborhood kids in Monterrey persuade him to teach them what he knows about baseball, and he knows more than they do, even if he never played professionally. He had seen the game up close. One thing leads to another, and despite their seeming unreadiness and the coach's reluctance to lead them, the boys end up going North to see what competitive baseball is all about.

There's a love interest, and there's a religious aspect as their little Catholic church supports the team with prayers and cheers. (Cheech Marin, of Cheech and Chong fame, is Padre Esteban.) And then, there's baseball. 

There is a cute scene in which the boys are all kneeling before the padre who, instead of sprinkling them with oil, squirts oil into their open baseball mitts. As any serious ballplayer will tell you, rubbing oil into your mitt and taking care of the leather is an important part of the game.

The story takes place in 1957 where Jim Crow laws are still in effect. In various ways we see how the injustices of that period played out. Nevertheless, the team pressed on. 

As an aside, my mother's favorite baseball player back in the 1950s was from Mexico--Bobby Avila of the Cleveland Indians. When Susie and I were in Monterrey in 1981, we unexpectedly discovered Mexico's version of the Major League Baseball Hall of Fame, the Salon de la Fama. There we saw the uniform, and other Bobby Avila memorabilia.  

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THE FENCER

This is a similar story in which a "coach" trains a ragtag group of kids and transforms them into champions. The setting in this instance is Estonia after World War II, which was under Soviet rule during the Stalin era. And like The Perfect Game it is also based on a true story.

An understanding about the history of that period is useful though not necessarily essential to appreciating the story. Nevertheless, I will give a quick sketch of the backstory.

In 1940 the Soviet Union invaded Estonia and the Baltic States of Latvia and Lithuania. Stalin was fighting the winter war with Finland and they essentially abducted the young men of these countries for the Red Army or to work in the mines on behalf of the war effort that was coming. In 1942, the Germans liberated the Baltic States so that for two years these three countries were "free" from KGB night raids and abductions. 

In 1944, the Red Army began its million man march on Berlin. To give you an idea how much the Soviets under Stalin were feared, 10% of the Estonian population fled West in a single day. (My screenplay and unpublished novel Uprooted is about that period of Estonian history.)

The Fencer involves an Estonian named Endil Nelis who has lived his life on the run. Any Estonian who had anything to do with the German army was a marked man. They would be sent away to Siberia for betrayal. On the other hand, anyone who had been in Estonia from 1942-44 would have had no choice but to be drafted. Those who did not flee when the Red Army came West ran off into hiding. 

Endil Nelis, an award-winning fencer, survived after the war by living a life on the run. Early in the film his friend urges him not to come to Leningrad but to stay in a remote town outside the view of the authorities. He does so, and gains employment back in Estonia as a phys ed teacher. One thing leads to another and the children all want to learn fencing, which they essentially know nothing about.

He proceeds to teach, and he himself is a master, but he has no real ambition for the kids other than to give them an opportunity to learn. One of the children finds an advertisement for a tournament, which brings Nelis to a decision point. If he brings the children to Leningrad for the tournament he risks being identified and sent away.

Knowing Estonia's background is useful for understanding the complicated decision he must make. Many, if not most, of these children have no fathers. He has become a father figure for them. To avoid the tournament would be a massive disappointment. On the other hand, he has grown weary of living life in the shadows and ever fearful of discovery.

Little does he know that the Secret Police have already been making inquiries, so he is a trapped rabbit either way.

Mรคrt Avandi, who plays Nellis, does a superb job of showing how complicated life is when you know what is going on but can't be transparent about it. He is burdened by the secrets he carries, but does not want to burden his students with this. 

The Fencer is a foreign language film with English subtitles that was nominated in 2016 for a Best Foreign Film Oscar. Some would criticize it's formulaic standard fare rags-to-riches, David & Goliath arc. For me, that was not a distraction, just a backdrop. The film says much about freedom and repression without saying it in a cliche manner. 

The story moved me and I recommend it.

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